We like to think
ourselves smart, we have all the answers, and we want to pass that all, but if
you scratch beneath the surface, you don’t have to dig very deep to find the
kid you were which is why it’s kind of a crazy that we are not revealing our
own image or the person that we really are. Sometimes it is better to be the
way you actually are, no makeup no pretending.
“Can people change?” I don’t know
(the question seems simple, but is it??)
People are who
they are, give or take 15%, that’s how much people can change if they really
want to. Whether it’s for themselves or the people they love, yeah…15%. You
know what, sometimes that’s just enough.
Once I was really
very depressed, I realized it then that I had almost lost all the fun in me. I
really thought it was all too late for me. Then when I looked around I saw the
cheerful faces and got inspired, started feeling all the fun elements
accumulating all around me, blubbing. I rediscovered myself. That was a
changing moment.
Part of life is
that sometimes you have to let some things go. It is always tough to say
goodbye, it always is. Nobody loves change, but part of life is to let things
go and embrace the change.
Friends change and in due course of time, we too
change. But do our values of friendship change?
Ok, the key to
being a good friend, sometimes things turn up the way you want, sometimes they
don’t, you have to hang in there because when all is said and done, 90% of
being a friend is being there to support.
It is all like an Earthquake and a kiss, I am serious, ok I’ll explain:
“There’s nothing
mystical about an Earthquake, pressure builds and it is released. You just hope
that there’s not too much damage. But it makes you realize what matters, for me
it is the people I love”
“A kiss, on the
other hand, can mean so many different things, it can be the start of something
new, it can be how we say, THIS is the person we love, it can be romantic, and
it can also be worth waiting”
Everybody is
afraid of something like heights, clowns or tight spaces. Those are the things
that you can get over, but then there’s Life,
will I fit in? Will I be safe? Those are the fears that you never get
passed. So sometimes all you can do is take a deep breath, pull your loved ones
close and hope for the best. I mean things always don’t work out, but you are
going to love it when they do.
Sometimes after a
big fight, all I want is to be with the person I love. But of course, that
would mean finding a way to apologize to the person whom I had fought, I could
have been rejected I mean really rejected, instead I was welcomed every single
time. See we all are from different worlds, yet we somehow fit together. Love
is what binds us through fair or stormy weather.
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